7 Ways To Keep Politics From Ruining Your Relationship

Now that Hillary Clinton and Donald Trump are officially nominated and the conventions are behind us, the stage is set for what I'm sure will be a wild, no holds-barred, drop down and punch them out type of race to the end for the presidency. The press will capitalize on every opportunity they get to make Donald Trump and Hillary Clinton look bad (depending on which media outlet you pay attention to). Stories will be sensationalized and water cooler and dinner table conversations will be filled with all things politics. And for some of these at home conversations, they can be volatile, contentious, and maybe even verge on breaking up a relationship. I've actually had a few fighting couples see me, who in their defense or attack of a candidate, almost parted for good.

In my personal life I've been met with outrage at the mere expression of how I feel about one candidate or the other and my commentary of the political circus. This got me thinking. Just how should couples deal with opposing views in their relationship? How can two loving people have such dissimilar views and continue to coexist and not let the 2016 election tear them apart? The truth is, if the relationship is stable and loving and the couple problem solves well together, it will survive and withstand any tension or strain it may encounter. If though problems already exist, then that's a different story. They're vulnerable and could be subject to insurmountable troubles or even splitting up.

2. Listen. Be a good listener and truly make an effort to understand how your partner came to feel a certain way about a candidate. Sometimes being heard is all that's needed to prevent a discussion from turning acrimonious. Clarify what the other person says and how they feel by repeating back to them your summation or their comments and/or asking them questions that will ensure better understanding.

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